the subjugation is not a desirable condition, however, the terminology can assume positive connotations if it stems from a conscious choice and shared as in the case of a femdom relationship in which the man decides to live his sweet inferno.
Probably
this contradictory interpretative transformation of man has origin in expectations of his conceptual reflections that unconsciously and gradually are projected in the somatic sphere which creates of the appropriate and pleasing organic stimulations in concert with the psyche when the scene
Typically
in the nonconformist couple relationship is the Mistress that cultivates and directs the unusual libidos of the male partner through psychology and the sensory manipulation, then going to delay and prolong the male orgasm until its fulfillment... Therefore, in the peculiar game of power even the submissive man has his privileges, but the limelight are always for the Women...
is reasonable to assume that the elective subjugation is a attractive hedonistic choice that brings the man in the dangerous labyrinths of lust that notoriously is the hell of the reason, therefore, the intrepid adventurers will be obliged to diving into the sinful pleasures of lust for forget the infernal climate... waiting the evaporation of the symptoms of delicious addiction...